So, the big day has come and you are STILL searching for dating tips and conversation ideas?
Man, (or lady, as the case may be) you wouldn't be caught dead asking your pal for tips, and obviously you can't ask your mom or sis either.
Search no more...
Here are some 'inside secrets' that will guide you to make your mark, in more ways than one with your new date.
And I mean that quite literally!
If you are a guy and you have finally landed a date with that cute little girl, what do you do? First off, there are certain ground rules where women are concerned.
Remember, she is from Venus and you are from Mars.
So...
The two of you obviously speak a different language.
What means 'interested' to you may mean 'ogling' to her, especially if you look lasciviously at her various curves and other 'assets'.
Remember, most women take a guy's eyes very seriously. Actually, this is the one feature that first catches their attention, and it is your most effective weapon.
No matter how attractive she is and how well she has displayed her various resources...
NEVER STARE!
A woman positively abhors a man who stares at her body. This is one of the most overlooked but valuable of all dating tips ever.
You CAN stare, at her lovely face, and her oh! so beautiful eyes (this will get you some extra points and maybe a phone call tomorrow).
Up to the chin is okay, but never below that. So, get a hold on yourself. There's time enough for all that later on.
If I were to make a list of oft repeated but least respected dating tips, this one would head it:
Guys, don't yap!
You see, the people in Venus have small ears and a relatively big mouth. They can't help it. God made them that way. Besides, women have always been attracted by the strong, silent types.
It adds a much needed dash of magic to the man.
So...
Men - learn to listen.
And if you dare to let your eyes glaze over or dart here and there, you've had it. She comes to know immediately. And she'll most probably look elsewhere too.
So, listen carefully...
And if you find yourself enjoying it, well, then, you are off to a good start.
Allow her to choose a suitable topic, and try to follow it up. Prompt her for her opinions. This gives her a much-needed sense of importance.
Women love romance...
Think up some sizzling ideas for romantic first date like a candle lit dinner in a quiet place.
Dress conveys a lot where women are concerned. So, dress appropriately. Have a sense of occasion.
Go clean...
Women notice all sorts of small things, like dirt under your nails, ear wax etc. I'd suggest a good refreshing bath, a costly cologne or deo before you leave for the date.
Women like it when you make an effort. But, don't groom yourself in front of the gal. That's her part, not yours!
When it comes to women, there are various dating tips that will just grab the man's attention and keep him where you want him.
THE FIRST:
Get there on time!
Don't make him wait; this is not the time to let your importance show. Wear a dress that makes you feel good.
That kinky red number may look gorgeous in the store, but if you find yourself tugging at the bodice, then it's a definite NO.
Don't show too much of yourself. The poor man will definitely be distracted, and you may find yourself feeling wretched when he stares.
Leave something for the imagination. Most men are nervous, so begin with a relaxed, warm smile. Try to be open.
Some dating tips are easy but very effective. This is one such:
Be observant and sympathetic...
Most guys come armed with a few one-liners and neat pick-up sentences. Take it in your stride, and allow him to get away with it. If you find yourself enjoying the date, let him know it.
This will add that special zing to the date. And most of all, enjoy yourself. Just let yourself go. If the guy does not turn out to be the man of your dreams, well, there are other fish in the sea!
From time to time, we'll be bringing you other exciting dating tips...In the meantime, if you need to pep up your love life, you will find our articles on Romantic Words and Romantic Teasing very lively and refreshing.
Also, be sure to read our startling article on Men Seeking Oriental Women. HINT: It's not what you've always been taught.
Update: This is our latest article...Romantic first date ideas...just for those moments when your creative juices stopped flowing.
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