Many people just don't know whether it's going up or down - or whether they have one in the first place. How do you find out whether your partner really loves you?
If you have been married for some years, is it possible that love has taken a back seat and life is all there is?
Read on and find out how you fare on the particular highway called 'love'.
Just when your love life is taking its first faltering steps, there is a certain freshness and a special heat in everything. The world looks beautiful and you feel like you are in heaven.
Obviously, we can't be in heaven for too long, so, slowly but surely, things begin to change. Mistakes happen. Roaring fights and wet tissues become more familiar.
This is the time when you should start examining the direction your love life is taking.
One of the biggest mistakes that couples make is...
Haste.
Haste in love, haste in sex, haste in marriage, and finally, haste in repenting the whole thing.
When you feel that a certain person is special, try to see if you have too many differences.
Can these differences be ironed out, or worked around? If you smooth over the humps and bumps without a permanent solution, they are bound to raise their ugly heads some time or the other along the way.
So, the first mantra is...
Settle obvious differences beforehand. Do not expect your feelings to take care of your problems. Otherwise, your problems will later 'take care' of your feelings.
A successful love life is all about commitment...
Johnny does not mind working for 16 hours on his project. But he cannot put in even an hour of work when it comes to love and marriage.
Lisa can spend hours chatting with her friends, but does not have time to talk to her boyfriend. Such a person cannot expect any dividends - no pain, no gain.
GET IT?
It takes sweat and tears to get to know, appreciate and really love a person. A healthy loving life is the fruit of many years of observation and gentle caring. It does not just sprout out of the ground when the rains fall.
Here are some tips that will help you keep the spark alive and the candle burning even when there is a storm raging outside.
- Pay a compliment
We are all too good at picking out the faults. If you actually count the compliments you pay your beloved, you'll be shocked by how few they are.
- Limit your expectations
Don't expect your partner to change too much. After all, if he or she changes so much, they will no longer be the person you fell in love with in the first place. This is very important if you want your love life to thrive and flourish.
- Take a holiday together
Many a time, when life intrudes, we get cloudy with our priorities. Make a list of some top romantic vacations. Get out and enjoy. You'll be amazed at the change this can cause.
- The seven-eight-nine year itch is a myth
Yes, it is possible to have a healthy love life with one person for more than 50 years too. All you need is a little devotion and some imagination.
- Give gifts
Spruce up your intimacy with some new ideas for romantic bedroom decor. Give her or him something to smile about...a romantic massage with scented lotions can sure heat things up, and guys this is a nice way to introduce hot sex with your woman
It's not very easy to have a steadily pulsating love life, especially if you have been with the same person for some time. But if you can care enough to keep your love fresh and true, you have fulfilling years of happiness ahead of you.
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